Just a newly-wed thought
People say when you get married you discover new sides of each other (or yourself ) that you may not like. In my case, that's being bossy and demanding. I always knew I was bossy--I'm a big sister. Plus, I think I know everything sometimes. But was I always so demanding that I disregarded my manners and disrespected people? My sister would probably say yes (because I have hurt her feelings many times), but I know the truth is that I'm only like that when I let my situation and my fleshly nature take over my attitude. I know who I am in Christ, and I know who I was to Connor before we got married, and it's not a bossy, demanding, unfeeling person. God says I am a new creation. One full of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, and self-control. One who doesn't selfishly demand my own way. So my thought/question is... Have I discovered a "side" of myself that I don't like, but that I must accept and expect to come out in certain situations...
